Honeybee wrote:I agree that T'Pol was too often made a victim in the show - this episode, Shockwave, Stigma, Impulse, Rajiin, Damage…the list goes on. Of course, there's plenty of episodes where she's not a victim and Archer and Trip both have their fair share of awful experiences - it just plays differently when it is happening to a woman. Plus, JB plays the suppression of pain really, really well, so it's always hard to see the character suffer.
However, this episode really does nail the sociopath, predator, control-freak that lurks beneath some arrogant and charming men. Something, I might add, that has been in the news lately. Tolaris thinks he's acting in her best interest. He's more than happy to help her, but when she dares draw a line, he's also more than happy to hurt her.
I agree, except I would refine the point about Tolaris believing he's acting in T'Pol's best interest to say that he's using it as justification to act in *his* own best interest. But yes, Tolaris absolutely exhibits characteristics of a serial killer, serial rapist, and/or cult leader. For Tolaris, I often draw the comparison to someone like Ted Bundy. Nice guy on the outside, charming, would help old ladies cross the street or give you the shirt off his back...but he had a beast inside and he took it out on women. Lots of them. In terms of Tolaris, I'd be interested to know if T'Pol was the first...or the last. Or if he eventually went all Jeffrey Dahmer and tried to mind-meld himself a sex zombie. I totally would not be surprised.
As for T'Pol being made a victim, I get the outrage about that -BUT- in terms of this particular story, fans have to come to terms with a couple of facts. First, since Vulcan culture is obviously different from what we were shown in all the series and films up to this point, they had to have a way to EXPLAIN that--and to do that they needed a group of people in the know but less tight-lipped about such things than your white bread Vulcan. Enter the hippie Vulcan cult. Second, for the purposes of character development, certain details about T'Pol's maverick streak need to come out. Since, up to this point, aside from telling her betrothed to take a hike, she's basically trying to be a mainstream Vulcan, she's not about to give that information all that easily, especially given the nature of said information--going against the grain, breaking protocols, the existence of sexual needs and desires, etc. So, it makes sense that this kind of information would somehow need to be forced from her. I'm not advocating rape--telepathic, sexual, or otherwise--but I'm saying that it's a no-brainer that getting this kind of information from such a character isn't going to be tidy or pretty or easy. It's got to be something pretty dramatic.
Furthermore, in the context of this episode, it's a cautionary tale against criminalizing something that's a normal part of life. If mind melds weren't taboo, A) T'Pol would've likely been able to defend herself against such a predator, and B) there would likely be fewer predators. For example, some studies show that in countries that are more open about sexuality and less repressive about things like nudity on TV, etc., there are statistically fewer crimes against women, vs. here in the US, we still try to be all puritanical about sex culturally and largely treat it as a dirty little secret, and we have often been shown to have a higher percentage of violent crimes against women. I am not saying this to be all political or anything, I am just making a point about something that this episode might have been trying to tell us. We know that touch telepathy is a normal part of being a Vulcan, but T'Pol doesn't have the benefit of that knowledge or world view, so they're showing us what happens when you culturally shame people for something that's natural, it's a recipe for disaster, as some would argue that a cultural view that shames people for nudity and sexuality is likewise damaging to individuals as well as society.
The message I'm seeing in this episode is that T'Pol was victimized by her society as much as she was victimized by Tolaris, which we see played out later on in "Stigma", when she's treated like a pariah for having picked up the brain equivalent of an STD from her attack. It recalls back to the Dark Ages when we used to tell rape victims it was their fault because their skirts were too short or they had on too much mascara or they had no business being in a parking lot at night, never mind the fact they were trying to come home from work.
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