Well, it took me awhile to give this one a try. Silence of the Lambs gave me nightmares but I love Bryan Fuller's writing. Wonderfalls is one of my favorite shows ever, and so sad it never caught on. I generally don't like gore, either. But I gave this a shot and ended up binge watching the first season. I love, love, love the conceit that Will is too empathetic to function and Hannibal has no empathy so functions beautifully and they are opposites. MM does a beautiful job as Hannibal, as the show hinges on the audience liking him and seeing why people would want to hang out with him. Beautiful accent, beautiful suits, beautiful house, beautiful office...cheekbones to die for. And I think Hugh Dancy matches him. The gore is so over the top, that I can tolerate it.
I also think that if serial killers with the thoughtful performance artists they are in this show's universe, we'd be more tolerant of them.
I am also very happy to be a vegetarian while watching.