I have so many conflicting emotions about this episode that it's difficult to really form a solid opinion.
As a whole, it's not one of my favorites - for the reason mentioned above. On one hand, I feel like Trip was inflicting human morality and ideals on an alien culture. On the other hand, I can't say that he was wrong because I do agree that "human rights" should apply to all beings and not just humans. Morally, he was right. Diplomatically, he was wrong. So which do you go with?
Jon. I feel like a huge portion of his anger was more about losing his new friend than it was about Trip's actions. He hadn't had many positive first-contact experiences up to that point. Trip himself said that it was nice to have a first-contact that didn't involve powering up the weapons. So Jon finally has a good experience, and it blows up in his face. So I felt like a good deal of his anger was about that. And, to some degree, I feel like his anger was more at himself than Trip. Trip said that he did what he believed Jon would do, which means that Jon has set a piss-poor (in his mind) example. And, if we're talking strictly diplomatically, he has: the Suliban camp and the Klingons come to mind. Jon has a history of sticking his nose in where it didn't belong, and so it was somewhat hypocritical for him to get so angry at Trip for doing the same.
Honeybee wrote:Even Connor talks about this episode as being one of the examples where Trip "grew up" as it were.
I'd agree with Connor. IMHO, the incident with Charles is the start of a turning point for Trip. That turning point started here and continued just a few episodes later with the death of his sister. After these two events, I see Trip become more considering of his actions before he makes a move. He becomes a better leader. He grew up.
But I would say that Jon grew up some here too. He realized that his crew does look to him as an example of what they should or should not do and that he hadn't been setting the best example. There were several points before that he questioned whether or not he'd made the right decision, but I think that this was the first time he had to come face-to-face with the consequences of his past actions. From here, I see Jon more mindful of his actions and taking the time to consider how they are portrayed to the crew.
Sadly, I also see this as a pivotal moment in the relationship between Jon and Trip and I never felt like it was quite the same afterwards. We see a couple of examples of them hanging out and spending time together, but they are few and far between.